Wednesday, August 14, 2024

Peacemakers and Bridge-Builders: Reflecting Christ in Our Relationships.


Dear  Sisters and Brothers in Christ,

In today’s Gospel, (Mt 18:15-20), Jesus offers us a profound lesson on Christian community, forgiveness, and the power of unity in His name. These verses may seem, at first glance, to be merely practical advice on conflict resolution. But when we look deeper, we find that they touch the very heart of what it means to live as disciples of Jesus.

Jesus begins by teaching us the importance of confronting one another with love when one has been wronged. When a brother or sister stumbles, our instinct might be to distance ourselves, to point fingers, to gossip or shaming the other. Jesus is teaching that we should rather seek reconciliation. We are called to be a community marked by grace, not judgment.

Jesus invites us to a different path. He urges us to approach the erring one privately, with a heart full of love and concern. It is about restoration and salvation of our erring brother or sister, drawing him or her back into the warmth of fellowship. This intimate approach respects the dignity of the other and preserves the relationship. It reflects the patience and grace that Christ extends to each of us. When we approach our brothers and sisters in this way, we are not just following a set of rules; we are living out the gospel in real and tangible ways

If the private conversation does not bring resolution, Jesus advises us to take one or two others along. This step is not to gang up on the person, but to invite wisdom and objectivity into the situation. Therefore, it is of utmost importance to be careful whom we invite into the conflict resolution. Preferably, we should involve other Christians with wisdom and good character.  In this way, we can ensure that truth is upheld, and reconciliation remains the goal, not broadcasting the fault of others. Moreover, the presence of witnesses also emphasizes the seriousness of our commitment to living in harmony and truth.

Finally, if the person still refuses to listen, Jesus says to "tell it to the church." This reveals the deep communal nature of our faith. We are not isolated individuals but members of the body of Christ. The well-being of one affects all, and the church community is both a sanctuary and a place of accountability.

Jesus calls us to uphold each other in love, even when it is difficult, because we are all bound together in Him. I believe that, as disciples of Jesus, we need to live out this communal dimension of our faith: together, we are stronger; but divided, we are weaker.  Can we imagine the impact Christians could have on the world and society if we were united in Christ? Alas, sometimes, Christians spend more time working against each other, intentionally and unintentionally.

The final verses of today’s Gospel remind us of the incredible power we have as a community of believers. When we gather in His name, Jesus promises to be with us. This is not just a symbolic presence, but a real and living one. Our prayers, our efforts to reconcile, our struggles to forgive, are not just human endeavors; they are imbued with the divine presence of Christ Himself.

Today’s Gospel is finally a call to love courageously, to forgive generously, and to seek unity with perseverance. As disciples of Jesus, we are called to reflect His heart in all our relationships. This means confronting wrongdoing with love, seeking reconciliation with humility, and standing together in prayer and faith.

May we always remember that when we gather in His name, whether to resolve a conflict or to offer a prayer, Jesus is with us.  Let us be a community where the wounded find refuge, where the lost are welcomed back, and where love prevails over all else. He guides us, strengthens us, and fills our efforts with His grace. Let us, therefore, be peacemakers, bridge-builders, and faithful disciples who, in all things, strive to bring the love of Christ into the world. May God bless all our effort to be peacemakers.🙏🙏🙏 

 


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